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SparkleDivine

Brooklyn, New York | TS/TV/TG Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Self sufficient TG in Brooklyn, looking for fun, dates and hopefully a hell of a lot more.

5'6", 135#, Long black hair, blue eyed caucasian. I also have 9 tattoos and 21 piercings, most of which are discreetly hidden. Though I clean up nice, I tend toward rocker/gothic/punk style-wise, but not always. It's really all about perception.

Sharp witted, secure with myself and self sufficient. These are characteristics I value in myself and look for in others, be they friends or lovers. I'm supportive and nurturing, but I'm also sarcastic and blunt. Around me, as in life, it seems that only the strong survive.

I'm TransGendered, not a TransSexual. I've considered the alternative time and again and though I have the utmost respect for people's decisions, it would not have been the right one for me. I know exactly what I should have been, one look/conversation with me will confirm it, but also know what I am and can accept it.

I cross dress often, some would even say always. I am also a performer, so in that regard my style can go from "casual, out for drinks, all the way up to "for the stage, outrageous". I guess what I'm leading up to though is that this is not always the case. Sometimes it comes off and for as much as I have to accept that, so do others. This intimidates some, but for the life of me I can't figure out why.

All I know is that I'm looking to meet people for conversation, adventure and fun. I love dating and getting to know people. Drinking and dancing, or staying at home cooking and talking. Museums & movies - acrobat lesson & apple picking. Leather & lace - jeans and sneakers. I run the gamut, think you can keep up?

I'm extremely outgoing and personable. I'm into all types, styles and colors. I'm open minded, I hope you are too. Don't be shy, say hi. The worst that could happen is a couple of email conversations where we realize maybe we're not right for each other. BUT, think of the BEST that could happen instead. Positive thinking goes a long way!

Hope to hear from you.
Sign
Aquarius

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Yes
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Belly Button Ring, Inked All Over, Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Black
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
High School Diploma
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Hair Stylist/Makeup Artist
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is
Comedic, Dark, Flirtatious, Friendly, Loud, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Family, Internet, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Partying, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Ample time to get to know someone. The atmosphere and what we're doing matter not. What matters is that we get along. Otherwise, (to be even more non-specific) I'd have to say my ideal date would be something even I couldn't predict. Something I know is ideal only after experiencing it for myself!
I've Always Wanted To Try
Acrobat lessons.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure

Views

My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
To enjoy myself whenever possible, not take the other stuff to seriously or at least learn to roll with the punches, try to get paid for doing the things I enjoy doing, love other & learn to love myself....to be specific....
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Ambient, Blues, Dance, Electronic, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Vacuum Cleaner Noises
When I Read, I Always Read
Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Something I figure out after the festivities are over. Did I enjoy myself? If yes, then it was a good time, if not, then it wasn't. I'll just have to reserve judgement. I'll try anything once, but I don't know if I like it or not until it's been done!

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Well, to be honest, I thought I knew, but these days I'm not sure anymore. I know I have types, I know what I like and don't like, but so far none of these have worked out, if they had, I wouldn't be on a dating site....so I guess my answer is: undecided?
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Other, Doesnt Matter, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck