M part of Bi Poly couple

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am in an open relationship and we are in search of others to bring into our life. We are both pansexual, and consequently are open to fulfilling this vacancy regardless of gender. I myself enjoy binding (rope/leather) a sub, fire play, biting, canes/floggers, hair pulling, and seeing how far I can taunt and bait them for more. I have been in the lifestyle for over twelve years, and in that time my fascination has never ceased with the variation of people and the means that arouse them.

On a more casual note, we love to entertain and socialize, so are both always looking to make new friends for friends’ sake. We are either entertaining in our home or we can be found at the Lair De Sade almost weekly, where I am also an Insight Relationship Manager, so if you have a topic you’d like to present or request, let me know.

I believe in having a well balanced life, beyond just the kink. I enjoy the wilderness, science fiction and comedy, patronizing the arts and entertainment, and have a pleasant hobby of oil painting (See some of my work on my FetLife profile). I am the proud puppy parent of Leo, an excitable and handsome chocolate Labrador. I would like to get back into hiking, and wish gain my pilots license. During the day I am an accomplished engineer, racking my brain to make original solutions reality.

My personality could best be described as quirky, redeemably down-to-earth, ambitious, liberal, reflective, pragmatic, and a strong sense of civic responsibility.

Lady Solaris is goofy yet intelligent, having her degree in business management, extraordinarily insightful, and has her own artistic outlets: singing (jazz and Broadway), photography, makeup artistry.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Butt

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Secret Piercings

My Hair Is

Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

My Job Title Is

Senior Electrical Engineer

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Just something where we could get to know eachother better - low pressure, or commitment.

I've Always Wanted To Try

sky diving, again too many to list

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Agnostic

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To enjoy life, to have value to the world... as well as a few personal goals (pilots license, work on my art, building relationships...).

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy

When I Read, I Always Read

Instructional, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Sailing, hiking, playing with labrador, socializing, video games, pretty flexible.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Somebody that we (Solaris and I) have chemistry with, that can contribute to our relationship as a person; a good and attractive (that definition goes beyond looks) person.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck, Other