Women make better lovers. <3

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

In my life I have tried them all...women and men. Men are dicks connected to ass holes, and I am not looking for an ass hole. If you are a lady, who know how to treat other ladies like a lady, then we may just be able to end this search once and for all.

I am not looking for a sex partner, as much as I am looking for a love partner. My past 3 marriages to women have failed, not because I did not love them with my whole heart...but because they thought they had married a man, not a woman.

If we had married as lesbians, then I have no doubt we would have succeeded.

My gender identity issue was a deep dark secret from most of the world until just a little over a year ago. Knowing I was different at an early age, it took me a life time to finally figure out and accept myself for who I am.

I took me a little longer to accept that I am now a transdyke...I do not want to consider anybody else...pre-op like myself would be my best matchup, but an understanding post-up might work to, but as we all know it is difficult for us pre-ops, and how many post-ops would ever have the patience it would require to wait for a pre-op to be a post-op?

I have no idea how to do this properly, "find a mate" to love and to cherish. So please...if you have any advice on how to do this, I would love to hear it?

I started RLE about 15 months ago, have all of my paperwork completed including with the veteran's administration...I am at least legally female, if not biologically.

Started HRT about 8 months ago, and plan on SRS sometime within a couple more years hopefully. Just finishing up laser treatment and hope to begin electrolysis in a short time.

I spend most of my time on the internet, and also am working as a volunteer at several lbgt related business's.

The words to describe myself would be taken from what most everybody else tells me..."a good hearted person". Having a good heart is the most important task for me while being on this rock.

I love the movies, going out to do stuff...trying new stuff is fun, fun, fun! But beware, I am a female...and sometimes I cannot control myself when it comes to shopping, chatting, or giving hugs or wanting hugs.

If you are not the type that likes to show their affection through touching then I doubt that we would be a good match. I love to be held, and to hold...all women are princesses in my way of thinking, and that includes you and I too.

Although I currently live in Spokane, Wa., I am not opposed to moving elsewhere? However, if you are familiar with the term "brain drain" you may appreciate why I have stayed as long as I have in Spokane?

My vision is that the next girl who transitions does not have to end up feeling like she is all alone in this...so community awareness is probably my biggest priority next to having a big heart, and transitioning.

In order to feel complete, or to feel more complete, I would like to meet someone who is like me...who understands how I feel. Who does not need me to give them a 101 trans seminar, but who can love me for me the way I am.

Almost out of characters, so I suppose what I have written makes little or no sense to a lot of you. It does not surprise me that I am probably different in that I am looking for love.

Love is not sex. While sex is definitely good in and by itself, love is a pre-requisite in my life prior to "just sex"

If I was into just sex, I could almost see myself being willing to accept a man's attention...but I find that just a little less than repulsive.

I hold no bars with another ts girl though...what is mine, is hers...as long as it would be mutual?

Peace. Love.

Thank you for taking the time from your life to read this...I hope the right girl finds it, and does not hesitate to call me if you have any questions, as I know this is a pretty poor description probably.

Love to all of you, and a great big hug!!!

Debbie.

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Yes

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Other

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

Iron worker/Roughneck *retired

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Trying To Quit

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Music, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Gambling, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Not what most guys have in mind, at least not the ones who have been writing to me here at tsdating.

While I am longing to give someone special the treat of being the first to receive a full, deep throated blow job from me...I would really like it to be after the first date, maybe the second or the third.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Releasing my sexual inhibitions...losing my virginity to the right man, having a man as a boyfriend. That first time.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Pursuit of happiness, liberty, and justice for all. My goal is to be the realest, truest person I know how to be...without stepping on anyone else's toes, and not having my toes stepped on either. I worry a lot about my body image, so my day to day goal is to take voice lessons, and to go to the gym every day to be as good as I can be. I am never satisfied, but I keep at it. I would love to date someone, who after we became friends and trusted each other, I would want to blow them to Kingdom Cum! (It will be my first, so those who want experience, better not send me a message!)

My Kind Of Humor Is

Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Dancing, listening to music, playing texas hold-em, shooting pool, partying, chit chatting with other girls, going on dates, casino's, church.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

First, I look to see if a person is enjoying themselves around me...if they are, then I get really turned on by that, and want to be with them more and more. I am attracted to people, who are attracted to me. Most friends I have now, go way back...so, I guess I look for longevity in people. I do not want friends who are looking for something from me right this minute...let's let things sit for a while on the burner, and after it is done boiling...we should let things simmer a little. Once it is cooled down, then we can take a nice big swallow...yum, yum!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date