Somewhat wrapped up,

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hi, my name is Ernest. I'm a complicated but also sensitive person. I have been looking forward to hopefully making some new friends and meeting some new people. My approach to relationship is pretty hit and miss. Uusually miss. I'm a little down on myself because of that, but in a good way. I usually found other things I was interested in to occupy my time. Usually sports or academics. I also really like music. Heavy Metal, Alternative Rock, Classic Rock, Hip Hop, T.V. Theme Songs you name it, I like it. Right now I listening to Stone Temple Pilots. My current favorite sport is boxing and martial arts. But my current job keeps me working a shift that is making it hard for me to get back to it. I hate to say it but I usually let good opportunities pass me by because of cold feet. I am really looking forward to changing that part about myself, but I'm in no rush. I would rather approach seeking relationship first with just the hopes of meeting and making some new friends. That way maybe some of the pressure is off. Maybe somewhere in that process, finding someone I would like to get to know better and who I hope would like to get to know me as well. If you are a person who seems interested in getting to know and grow close to persons you are interested in over time. I am definitely looking forward to making some new friends and hopefully finding new relationship as well.

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some University

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Municipal / Law Enforcement

My Job Title Is

port of los angeles -- port security

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Cars, Camping, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

going to dinner, going to a movie, going to an event like a concert or something like magic mountain or knotts berry farm. hopefully, maybe a little bit of downtime where we're not in a rush to do anything, but just sit down and relax for a minute. i've learned from the dating and clubbing scenes that it is just better to try and not make a love connection but to try and make a new friend. i hope to let relationship be something that kind of builds into itself overtime, where all of a sudden you look back and say, hey, how did that happen?

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

On Holidays

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

to one stabilize the financial and logistical aspects of my personal life. i am sure a better paying blue collar job field will quickly help me to amend some of those dark clouds and worries that always have seemed to follow me.

next, i have a 3 year plan to get back into college as a part time student. while maintaining a full time job. i didn't want to be in a rush the first time i went to school, and i still don't want to be in one. i plan to major in urban planning and independent studies. somewhere before i get back to school, i also plan to register for real estate school and earn my real estates agents license. in 97 i had done it. and was well on my way to getting my license. but somehow, somewhere plans fell through and something i had gotten close to accomplishing fell through at the last minute of the effort.

that happened to me a lot in my life, but trust me, i don't talk about this stuff much, i kind of keep it too myself. so don't think i'm one of those people

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows, Soaps, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Classical, Blues, New age, Reggae

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Business, Computers, Fiction, Music, Nature, Philosophy, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

recently purchased an acoustic and electric guitar but just like books, i get really into it for a minute then i put it down. it took me long to realize, but i have a lot of time to kill at work. i've been at the job for about 8 months now but i just got the idea to bring the acoustic with me to work so i can practice. man, i wish the idea popped into my mind 8 months ago. but that is how things seem to go with me.

if i worked the graveyard shift, my idea of fun for the day is to hit the gym. i am really into boxing and martial arts and had a lot of fun training myself for the sport. but my shift right now is in the middle of the day and i can't switch yet, so right now that is on the back burner.

i really love music and finally developed the confidence enough to start working with music editing software, it is a secondary issue for me, but if all things go o.k., with my system of desktop and laptop computers, i can see myself developing quite a nice audio production and reco

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

i have learned from the dating and clubbing scenes that i don't need to be in a rush to close the deal, so to speak. those relationships come and go. i need and want to be more outgoing, i'm kind of passive on meeting people, and sometimes (oftentimes) let good situations pass me by. i always have these regrets of these things and say, if i had just done this or had done that, i could have met a really nice person, but i'm always left with the bittersweet depression, that i didn't.

look, i'm sexually very self contained, but i still hope and want, and need to have a companion in my life. but i'm not in a rush, lets try to learn to become friends first. friends go out, do stuff, hang out, its hard enough to pull all that kind of stuff together, let alone try to meet the other persons expectations.

i have to admit, i am a sucker for feminine beauty. i really do love and appreciate it. sometimes i think i am hoping for too much and looking past too much, because of it. i love

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Other