Waking the shadow!

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

What makes me, me? Well let me start with who I am not anymore, but once was....

Who I am not: I am not separation. Separation is only an illusion.
Separation from the God Source.
Separation from each other.
And separation from aspects of our self.

I am not secrecy. Withholding information from my partner & from myself.
With secrecy, my partner never gets to know who I truly am. Keeps me separated from the greater portion of myself.

I am not conditional love. I will love you, only so long as you fulfill my needs and expectations. I will withdraw my love, if you do not satisfy me.

I am not Expectation. I want, expect, and try to get my partner to fulfill my expectations and needs. I use my partner to satisfy my needs.

I am not manipulation. I use obvious or hidden manipulation so that my needs will be met, and so that I can remain protected from my own fears. I only see my partner as who I need them to be, not who they really are.

I am not dependency. I depend on and need someone
outside of myself in order to be happy.

Now I will introduce you to who I am!! :D

I am Integration, and reintegration. Everything and everyone are really all connected.

I am honesty, and openness. Total honesty with my partner.
With honesty, my partner gets to know who I truly am. Honesty means being 100% who I truly am.
I do not withhold a comment or information just to avoid hurting my partner, or to control the relationship.
I can never really know or predict what will hurt another or how they will react to my honesty.
Therefore, I should stop assuming responsibility for the other person's emotions, growth, & reactions to my honest non-manipulative communications.

I am no expectations. I trust and have no expectations from my partner.
I enjoy my partner, but without expectations.

I am allowingness. I allow my partner to be who they need to be. Only then can I see who they truly are.

I am absolute trust. I trust that everything that occurs is for my highest good. Therefore, I have no desire or need to control my partner.

And most importantly I am unconditional love. Even if you don't fulfill my needs and expectations,
I will still love you. I love you for who you are without trying to change you.

If this sounds interesting, shoot me a message. I always love meeting new people! :) no conditions, or judgement here, I'm an open book.

Now it's your turn, what makes you, YOU? :)

Love n light

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

High School Diploma

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Food / Catering

My Job Title Is

asst. manager

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Flirtatious, Dark

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Music, Movies, Internet, Family, Cooking, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino

An Ideal First Date Would Be

dinner and movie

I've Always Wanted To Try

Whatever feels right

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Agnostic

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Goal In Life Is

happiness

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Horror

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Metal, Blues

When I Read, I Always Read

Comic, Computers, History, Horror, Mystery

My Idea Of Fun Is

Being spontaneous and going with whatever you feel screw plans life's 2 short.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Spontaneity

What Do You Look For?

No real preferences, just be you, and that's good enough for me! :D

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date