Is my love YOUR drug?

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Seriously looking for what I know I want...
I'm very intelligent, well spoken, well written, charming, witty, openminded, honest, imaginative, creative, passionate, compassionate, kind, caring, sweet, kinky, very sexually open ...but am also a major smartass with a woman's typical mean streak...LOL. I am also NOT a small woman, though not a bbw. I am very curvy at a average size 14 (think America Ferrarra) with hair that keeps going back to red on me, chocolate brown eyes that sparkle and a smile that will not only knock your socks off, but knock you on your ass, as well *smiles* I am NOT a "tranny chaser" this is not just a curiosity. I am seriously looking and I know what I want. Not looking for cd...interested in TG/TS for more than a one nighter.


I am a very happily married woman who is looking with her husband's knowledge and permission...feel free to ask him, he'll give you the go ahead *smiles* he knew I was Bi when we met! I am married to my soulmate but still feel the desire for my female counterpart (or twin soul), as well. LOL I am looking for a friend AND a lover..not just a one night stand or short term "thing". I require alot of attention and affection in and out of bed so I am looking for more along the lines of a relationship but it doesn't necessarily HAVE to be a relationship. I am not looking to be someone's secret, but don't want everyone to know my business either. I love my husband very much and respect him and his profession..therefore I REFUSE to give cause to gossip and speculation that will tarnish his professional image, respect and admiration. ..girls can play alone only or we can even talk about my husband joining, if that is your desire. Not looking to have other men involved in anyway, whatsoever! I have a no bullshit tolerance level and I refuse to play mind games. If I say I want to meet, that means you have caught my interest...it may take awhile to work our schedules b/c I work a crazy hectic week but I won't say yes when I mean no... yes, I can be that picky. I understand that we can like someone's pic, but that does not necessarily mean there will be chemistry. Which is perfectly fine with me..I'm not looking to rush right into bed...I want a long lasting friendship out of this as well. So if we meet and there is no chemistry, I'd be more than happy to be friends. I can be shy ..so sometimes I need a push in the right direction..in other words..you might have to make the first move. I'm also ok with a nonsexual relationship of kissing, cuddling and holding hands. Sex is NOT a must for me in my relationship. Affection, respect and friendship is, though.
God made me a woman, I make me feminine..I'm very feminine, but not to the point of prissy. I am not a girl, I am a woman and expect to be treated as such.. I'm well balanced and still have part tomboy in me. I do prefer Femmes but I'm open to all . I am attracted to slender or CURVY women..(breast size is in no way an issue with me)...yes, it's more about the personality with me, but chemistry and attraction are important as well. Once again, I am open minded and will be completely honest about my attraction for someone.
You can expect complete honesty from me and I expect the same in return. I am very passionate about the people in my life and I love to engage in good conversation. I am married to my male soulmate, but I am looking for new friends and new experiences...such as a girlfriend, something longer term . I am Drama free, drug free, HIV- and had a complete tubal over 6 years ago.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Native American, Caucasian, Other

My Marital Situation Is

Married

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Secret Piercings, Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog, Fish

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

EVERYTHING! Mom, wife, friend, lover etc

I Make This Much In A Year

Less Than $14,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s), With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Often

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Fire Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Movies, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting for coffee in a bookstore...or a quiet restaurant...somewhere where we can actually have conversation...and flirting...lots of flirting..LOL...hand holding, eye contact, maybe sneaking a kiss...etc...then on to the movies where we can hold hands, snuggle, explore to see if and what kind of chemistry we have without the nervousness and self consciousness that so often comes on a first date.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Skydiving,

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To be happy...no matter what I end up doing or who I am with...just to be happy and content with who I am,

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Drama, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Poetry

My Idea Of Fun Is

A day or evening out, full of flirtation, smiles, laughter no matter where we choose to go..should it be out for dinner, a movie, shopping, to the lake/beach...just anywhere that we can hold hands, goof off and enjoy being together

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

I am looking for a pre-op TS/TG girl who is comfortable with who she is and knows what she wants.
I can handle a one nighter, but certainly don't prefer it.
I would like to find a girl for friendship and ultimately a LTR... a friend, lover, girlfriend and twin soul all rolled into one amazing woman!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Doesnt Matter, Friend, Date