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kellykelly
Calgary, Alberta | Mand Søger en TS/TV/TG
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Jeg taler
Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
I have been fascinated by transsexuals for many years, so having come out of 17 years of monogamous marriage to a genetic female in November of 2007 I am now very much appreciating being with the transgendered. I have come to realize I need more than a regular woman can give me. I am very adventurous. With the right partner I am ready to try just about anything.
Although vanilla sex can be fulfilling, from time to time I enjoy being totally dominated by my partner. In everyday life I promote equality but playing with power dynamics through sexual role-playing can be exciting. I am also willing to switch. I like both top and bottom but am respectful of my partner’s limits.
I have a lot of respect for the courage of those willing to follow their draw to live a transgendered lifestyle. It shows a lot of character.
I'm particularly (but not exclusively) attracted to transsexuals with a sense of humor, creativity and most of all someone with an open mind and an open heart. Hopefully you will be proud and confident in whom you are and the choices you are making. My respect is there for you, as you, like all of us, find (or have found) who you are and where you fit.
I have had a life full of adventures. Some difficult and some filled with ease. I would not take back a minute of it! It's been a terrific education and I have learned lots.
I've learned that things in life happen for a reason and flowing best I can with the changes while staying aware serves well. All the pieces continue to fall into place and life gets better and better.
I live by doing my best to follow some personal guidelines... being pure of heart, compassionate and giving, while being strong in knowing and standing for what is appropriate for me. Being accountable and following through on my dedications. Staying open to receiving. Giving to others when called to, without attachment. Bringing laughter and play into the lives of others and myself.
Living with as much integrity as I can access.
Being very grateful for what I have. Enjoying friendships. Respecting possessions without attaching to them. Doing the work I love. Finding value in every day.
Being accepting of other's non-harming choices in life. Honoring that we are all unique, and trusting that I will be drawn towards the uniqueness that attracts me and away from the flavors of uniqueness that do not - while still respecting others right to choose freely.
Honoring my own personal flavor of sexuality without prejudice. Being accepting of the personal non-harming sexual choices of others.
Embracing the passing of time; with age can come much wisdom when I stay awake to the inherent learnings.
Being guided by curiosity into seeking out various paths of learning. Looking to broaden my depth of understanding in my areas of interest.
Learning from my mistakes without getting lost in guilt or shame. Like everyone else I am human and I am going to make mistakes along the way. Owning those mistakes, processing the feelings, forgiving myself, apologizing to whomever was effected, making restitution, and re-dedicating to loving action in the future.
Remembering that my guidelines are my own. Not being naive enough to expect others to live up to my guidelines for life. Others will make their own choices about what works for them. If needing to make boundaries in order to care for myself in the face of the choices of others, doing so.
Respecting all aspects of myself - mind, body, emotions and spirit. At the same time being willing to take myself lightly and laugh at myself.
Opening to receive the fullness that each day offers. Rather than waiting for a "good day" to magically arrive, finding the goodness in each day that shows up. Knowing the tough and challenging days have value as well as the ones that are full of ease.
With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead.
Although vanilla sex can be fulfilling, from time to time I enjoy being totally dominated by my partner. In everyday life I promote equality but playing with power dynamics through sexual role-playing can be exciting. I am also willing to switch. I like both top and bottom but am respectful of my partner’s limits.
I have a lot of respect for the courage of those willing to follow their draw to live a transgendered lifestyle. It shows a lot of character.
I'm particularly (but not exclusively) attracted to transsexuals with a sense of humor, creativity and most of all someone with an open mind and an open heart. Hopefully you will be proud and confident in whom you are and the choices you are making. My respect is there for you, as you, like all of us, find (or have found) who you are and where you fit.
I have had a life full of adventures. Some difficult and some filled with ease. I would not take back a minute of it! It's been a terrific education and I have learned lots.
I've learned that things in life happen for a reason and flowing best I can with the changes while staying aware serves well. All the pieces continue to fall into place and life gets better and better.
I live by doing my best to follow some personal guidelines... being pure of heart, compassionate and giving, while being strong in knowing and standing for what is appropriate for me. Being accountable and following through on my dedications. Staying open to receiving. Giving to others when called to, without attachment. Bringing laughter and play into the lives of others and myself.
Living with as much integrity as I can access.
Being very grateful for what I have. Enjoying friendships. Respecting possessions without attaching to them. Doing the work I love. Finding value in every day.
Being accepting of other's non-harming choices in life. Honoring that we are all unique, and trusting that I will be drawn towards the uniqueness that attracts me and away from the flavors of uniqueness that do not - while still respecting others right to choose freely.
Honoring my own personal flavor of sexuality without prejudice. Being accepting of the personal non-harming sexual choices of others.
Embracing the passing of time; with age can come much wisdom when I stay awake to the inherent learnings.
Being guided by curiosity into seeking out various paths of learning. Looking to broaden my depth of understanding in my areas of interest.
Learning from my mistakes without getting lost in guilt or shame. Like everyone else I am human and I am going to make mistakes along the way. Owning those mistakes, processing the feelings, forgiving myself, apologizing to whomever was effected, making restitution, and re-dedicating to loving action in the future.
Remembering that my guidelines are my own. Not being naive enough to expect others to live up to my guidelines for life. Others will make their own choices about what works for them. If needing to make boundaries in order to care for myself in the face of the choices of others, doing so.
Respecting all aspects of myself - mind, body, emotions and spirit. At the same time being willing to take myself lightly and laugh at myself.
Opening to receive the fullness that each day offers. Rather than waiting for a "good day" to magically arrive, finding the goodness in each day that shows up. Knowing the tough and challenging days have value as well as the ones that are full of ease.
With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead.
Underskriv
Taurus
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Et par ekstra kilo
Min højde er
188 cm
Mine øjne er
Blå
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Skilt
Jeg har børn
Nej
Jeg vil have børn
Nej
Mit hår er
Lysebrun
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Ingen kæledyr
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Lidt af universitetet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Selvstændig
Mit speciale er
Andet
Min jobtitel er
Facilitator
Jeg tjener så meget på et år
Fra $45.000USD til $59.999USD
Jeg bor
Alene
Hjemme
Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem
Jeg er ryger
Nej
Jeg drikker
Nej
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Klassens klovn
Min sociale opførsel er
Genert, Observerende, Venlig
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Læring, Musik, Film, Dans, Spise til middag, Camping
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Prøve noget nyt, I biografen, Afslappende
En ideel første date ville være
Good food. Indepth conversation.
Jeg har altid villet prøve
Scuba-diving at a corral reef.
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Spirituel, men ikke religiøs
Mit mål i livet er
Being a caring person. Respectful of self and others.
Min form for humor er
Snu, Venlig
Smag
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Handling, Comedy, Drama, Voksen
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Pop, Blues, New age, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Humor, Gør-det-selv, Musik, Natur, Filosofi, Opslag, Satire, Jeg er forfatter
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
I enjoy rock climbing / dancing.
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Flot udseende, Humor, Empati, Følsomhed, Skaldethed, Særheder, Spontanitet, Morsom, Omtanke
Hvad leder du efter?
With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead. If it happens to open to a sexual connection for both of us I am willing to start with a no strings attached "one night stand" for fun and exploration. From there we can see if that is enough or if we want to explore further.
If my profile has stirred an interest I invite you to contact me.
If my profile has stirred an interest I invite you to contact me.
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