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Ik spreek:

Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

I have been fascinated by transsexuals for many years, so having come out of 17 years of monogamous marriage to a genetic female in November of 2007 I am now very much appreciating being with the transgendered. I have come to realize I need more than a regular woman can give me. I am very adventurous. With the right partner I am ready to try just about anything.

Although vanilla sex can be fulfilling, from time to time I enjoy being totally dominated by my partner. In everyday life I promote equality but playing with power dynamics through sexual role-playing can be exciting. I am also willing to switch. I like both top and bottom but am respectful of my partner’s limits.

I have a lot of respect for the courage of those willing to follow their draw to live a transgendered lifestyle. It shows a lot of character.
I'm particularly (but not exclusively) attracted to transsexuals with a sense of humor, creativity and most of all someone with an open mind and an open heart. Hopefully you will be proud and confident in whom you are and the choices you are making. My respect is there for you, as you, like all of us, find (or have found) who you are and where you fit.

I have had a life full of adventures. Some difficult and some filled with ease. I would not take back a minute of it! It's been a terrific education and I have learned lots.
I've learned that things in life happen for a reason and flowing best I can with the changes while staying aware serves well. All the pieces continue to fall into place and life gets better and better.

I live by doing my best to follow some personal guidelines... being pure of heart, compassionate and giving, while being strong in knowing and standing for what is appropriate for me. Being accountable and following through on my dedications. Staying open to receiving. Giving to others when called to, without attachment. Bringing laughter and play into the lives of others and myself.
Living with as much integrity as I can access.
Being very grateful for what I have. Enjoying friendships. Respecting possessions without attaching to them. Doing the work I love. Finding value in every day.

Being accepting of other's non-harming choices in life. Honoring that we are all unique, and trusting that I will be drawn towards the uniqueness that attracts me and away from the flavors of uniqueness that do not - while still respecting others right to choose freely.

Honoring my own personal flavor of sexuality without prejudice. Being accepting of the personal non-harming sexual choices of others.

Embracing the passing of time; with age can come much wisdom when I stay awake to the inherent learnings.
Being guided by curiosity into seeking out various paths of learning. Looking to broaden my depth of understanding in my areas of interest.

Learning from my mistakes without getting lost in guilt or shame. Like everyone else I am human and I am going to make mistakes along the way. Owning those mistakes, processing the feelings, forgiving myself, apologizing to whomever was effected, making restitution, and re-dedicating to loving action in the future.
Remembering that my guidelines are my own. Not being naive enough to expect others to live up to my guidelines for life. Others will make their own choices about what works for them. If needing to make boundaries in order to care for myself in the face of the choices of others, doing so.

Respecting all aspects of myself - mind, body, emotions and spirit. At the same time being willing to take myself lightly and laugh at myself.
Opening to receive the fullness that each day offers. Rather than waiting for a "good day" to magically arrive, finding the goodness in each day that shows up. Knowing the tough and challenging days have value as well as the ones that are full of ease.

With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead.

Sterrenbeeld

Stier

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Een paar extra kilo's

Mijn Lengte Is

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Blauw

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Gescheiden

Ik Heb Kinderen

Nee

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Mijn Haar Is

Lichtbruinharig

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Geen huisdieren

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

MBO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Zelfstandig

Mijn specialisatie is

Iets Anders

Mijn functie is:

Facilitator

Mijn jaarsalaris is:

Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Nee

Op de middelbare school was ik

Klassenclown

In sociale situaties ben ik

Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Films, Dansen, Eten, Kamperen

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen

Een perfecte eerste date is

Good food. Indepth conversation.

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Scuba-diving at a corral reef.

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk

Mijn Geloof Is

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

Being a caring person. Respectful of self and others.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Slim, Vriendelijk

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Komedie, Drama, Erotisch

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Pop, Blues, New Age, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk

Ik lees graag

Humor, Educatief, Muziek, Natuur, Filosofie, Wetenschappelijk, Satire, Ik ben een schrijver

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

I enjoy rock climbing / dancing.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Moed, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Wat zoek je?

With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead. If it happens to open to a sexual connection for both of us I am willing to start with a no strings attached "one night stand" for fun and exploration. From there we can see if that is enough or if we want to explore further.

If my profile has stirred an interest I invite you to contact me.

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