Just looking for sweet friends...

Jeg taler

Engelsk

Jeg beskriver mig selv som

Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Underskriv

Jomfruen

Min kropstype er

Et par ekstra kilo

Min højde er

180 cm

Mine øjne er

Nøddebrun

Min etnicitet er

Kaukasisk

Min civilstand er

Skilt

Jeg har børn

Ja - nogle gange hjemme

Jeg vil have børn

Ja

Mit bedste karaktertræk er

Læber

Mit hår er

Mørkeblond

Jeg har en eller flere af disse

Ingen kæledyr

Villig til at flytte

Ja

Mit uddannelsesniveau er

Lidt af universitetet

Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er

Arbejdsløs

Mit speciale er

Underholdning / medier

Jeg tjener så meget på et år

Mindre end $14.999USD

Jeg bor

Alene

Hjemme

Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem

Jeg er ryger

Ja - prøver at stoppe

Jeg drikker

Nej

I gymnasiet var jeg

Udstødt

Min sociale opførsel er

Reserveret, Genert, Observerende, Asocial, Venlig, Komisk, Flirtende, Underlig

Mine interesser og hobbier er

Religion / Spiritualitet, Familie, Spise til middag, Fotografering, Læsning, Kunst og håndværk, Læring, Musik, Tv, Film, Internet, Teater, Rejser, Madlavning, Camping, Frivilligt, Computer, Shopping

Min idé om at have det sjovt er

Være sammen med venner, Shoppe, Være hjemme, I biografen, Afslappende, Sove, Læse en bog, Klæde sig ud, Spille computerspil, Tv, Gå på museum

En ideel første date ville være

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Jeg har altid villet prøve

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Mine venner beskriver mig som

Venlig, En andre gerne vil være, Cool, Perfekt, Obskur, Fjollet

Min religion er

Kristen

Jeg deltager i tjenester

Aldrig

Mit mål i livet er

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Min form for humor er

Banal, Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet

I tv ser jeg altid

Tegnefilm, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Gør-det-selv, Film, Sæbeoperaer, Genudsendelser

Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en

Comedy, Romantik, Drama, Dokumentar, Familie, Gys

Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til

Land, Pop, Klassisk

Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid

Nyheder, Selvbiografi, Biografi, Klassisk, Komisk, Sundhed, Historie, Gys, Humor, Gør-det-selv, Musik, Mystik, Filosofi, Poesi, Satire, Romantik, Overnaturlig

Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Hvad finder du attraktivt?

Morsom, Magt, Spontanitet, Særheder, Følsomhed, Empati, Humor, Flot udseende, Omtanke, Intelligens, Passivitet

Hvad leder du efter?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?

Internetven, Ven, Dato, Intim, Forpligtet, Giftemål