Just looking for sweet friends...

Parlo

Inglese

Mi descriverei come

Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Segno zodiacale

Vergine

La mia corporatura è

Qualche chilo di troppo

La mia altezza è

5' 11 (1.8 m)

I miei occhi sono

Nocciola

La mia etnia è

Caucasico

Il mio stato civile è

Divorziato

Ho Figli

Sì - Qualche volta a casa

Voglio figli

Sì

Le mie caratteristiche migliori sono

Labbra

I Miei capelli sono

Biondo scuro

Ho una o più di queste

Nessun animale

Volontà di trasferimento

Sì

Il mio livello di istruzione è

Un po' di scuole medie superiori

La mia situazione lavorativa è

Disoccupato

La mia specializzazione è

Divertimento/ Media

Questo è quanto guadagno in un anno

Meno di €14,999Euro

Vivo

Da solo

A casa

Visite occasionali di amici

Fumo

Sì - Sto provando a smettere

Bevo

No

Tornando alle Superiori, Ero

Emarginato

Il mio comportamento sociale è

Riservato, Timido, Osservatore, Asociale, Amichevole, Comico, da flirtare, Strano

I miei interessi e Hobby sono

Religione/ Spiritualità, Famiglia, Cene, Fotografia, Letture, Arti & Mestieri, Istruzione , Musica, Tv, Fim, Internet, Teatro, Viaggi, Cucina, Campeggio, Volontariato, Computer, Shopping

Tempo speso bene secondo me:

Uscire con gli amici, Shopping, Stare a casa, I Film, Relax, Dormire, Leggere un libro, Travestirsi, Giocare ai video giochi, Tv, Andare a un museo

Un primo appuntamento ideale è

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Ho sempre voluto provare

Camping. I've honestly never been.

I miei amici mi descrivono come

Amichevole, Fonte d'ispirazione, Figo, Perfetto, Oscuro, Goffo

La mia religione è

Cristiano

Partecipo alle Funzioni

Mai

I mie obiettivi nella vita sono

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Il mio umorismo è di tipo

Campeggio, Saggio, Sarcastico, Amichevole, Goffo

In televisione guardo sempre

Cartoni Animati, Documentari, Film drammatici, Istruttivi, Fim, Telenovela, Repliche

Quando vado al cinema vado sempre a vedere

Commedie, Romantici, Drammatici, Documentari, Famiglia, Horror

Quando ascolto musica ascolto sempre

Country, Pop, Classica

Quando leggo, leggo sempre

Notizie, Auto biografie, Biografie, Classici, Comici, Salute, Storia, Horror, Umorismo, Istruttivi, Musica, Misteri, Filosofia, Poesia, Satira, Romantici, Soppranaturale

La mia idea di divertimento è

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Cosa trovi attraente?

Acume, Potere, Spontaneità, Bizzarrie, Sensibilità, Empatia, Umorismo, Bellezza, Profondità, Intelligenza, Docilità

Cosa cerchi?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Che tipo di relazione stai cercando?

Amici di rete, Amici , Incontri, Intimi, Impegnati, Matrimonio