Just looking for sweet friends...

Ik spreek:

Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Sterrenbeeld

Maagd

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Een paar extra kilo's

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Hazelnootkleurig

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Gescheiden

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Soms Thuis

Ik Wil Kinderen

Ja

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Lippen

Mijn Haar Is

Donkerblond

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Geen huisdieren

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Ja

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

MBO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Werkloos

Mijn specialisatie is

Onderwijs

Mijn jaarsalaris is:

Minder dan € 15.000

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Ja - Maar ik wil ophouden

Ik Drink

Nee

Op de middelbare school was ik

Buitenstaander

In sociale situaties ben ik

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Anti-sociaal, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Flirterig, Raar

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Religie / Spiritualiteit, Gezin, Eten, Fotografie, Lezen, Knutselen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Tv, Films, Internet, Theater, Reizen, Koken, Kamperen, Vrijwilligerswerk, Computers, Winkelen

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Thuis blijven, Films, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Me verkleden, Videospellen spelen, Tv, Naar een museum gaan

Een perfecte eerste date is

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn, Cool, Perfect, Obscuur, Gek

Mijn Geloof Is

Christelijk

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Nooit

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Op tv kijk ik:

Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Drama's, Educatief, Films, Soaps, Herhalingen

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Gezin, Horror

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Country, Pop, Klassiek

Ik lees graag

Nieuws, Autobiografie, Biografie, Klassiek , Comedy, Gezondheid, Geschiedenis, Horror, Humor, Educatief, Muziek, Mysterie, Filosofie, Poëzie, Satire, Romantiek, Bovennatuurlijk

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Gevatheid, Macht, Spontaniteit, Eigenaardigheden, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie, Passiviteit

Wat zoek je?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Een Internet Vriendje, Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid, Een Huwelijk