Just looking for sweet friends...

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Englanti

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Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Kirjaudu

Neitsyt

Vartalonmallini on

Muutama ylimääräinen kilo

Pituuteni on

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Silmienvärini on

Pähkinä

Etninen taustani on

Valkoihoinen

Aviosäätyni on

Eronnut

Minulla on lapsia

Kyllä - Joskus kotona

Haluan lapsia

Kyllä

Paras puoleni on

Huulet

Hiukseni ovat

Tumma Blondi

Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista

Ei lemmikeitä

Olen valmis muuttamaan

Kyllä

Koulutukseni taso on

Jonkin verran Lukiota

Työllisyys tilanteeni on

Työtön

Erikoistun

Viihde / Media

Tuloni per vuosi

Vähemmän kuin $14 999USD

Asun

Yksin

Kotona

Ystävät vierailevat satunnaisesti

Tupakoin

Kyllä - Yritän lopettaa

Juon

Ei

Yläasteella olin

Syrjäytynyt

Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni

Varautunut, Ujo, Sivustaseuraaja, Anti - sosiaalinen, Ystävällinen, Koominen, Flirttaileva, Outo

Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat

Uskonto / Hengellisyys, Perhe, Ruokailla, Valokuvat, Lukeminen, Taide & Käsityöt, Oppiminen, Musiikki, Tv, Elokuvat, Internetti, Teatteri, Matkustaminen, Kokkaus, Telttailu, Vapaaehtoistoiminta, Tietokoneet, Shoppailu

Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on

Kavereiden kanssa hengailu, Shoppailu, Kotona oleskelu, Elokuvat, Rentoutuminen, Nukkuminen, Kirjan Lukeminen, Pukeutumisleikit, Videopelien pelaaminen, Tv, Museossa käyminen

Unelma treffini olisivat

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Olen aina halunnut kokeilla

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan

Ystävällinen, Joku jota muut kadehtii, suosittu, Täydellinen, Epävarma, Hassu

Uskontoni on

Kristitty

Käyn säännöllisesti

Ei koskaan

Tavoitteeni elämässäni on

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Minun tapainen huumori on

Pinnallinen, Älykäs, Kuiva / Sarkastinen, Ystävällinen, Hassu

Televisiosta katson

Sarjakuvat, Dokumentit, Draamat, Neuvoa antavat, Elokuvat, Saippua, Uusinnat

Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan

Komedia, Romanssi, Draama, Dokumentti, Perhe, Kauhu

Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina

Country musiikki, Pop musiikki, Klassinen

Kun luen, luen aina

Uutiset, Omaelämänkerta, Elämänkerta, Klassinen, Koominen, Terveys, Historia, Kauhu, Huumori, Neuvoa antavat, Musiikki, Mysteeri, Filosofia, Runous, Satiiri, Romanssi, Yliluonnollinen

Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?

Nokkela, Voima, Spontaanisuus, Kummallisuus, Herkkyys, Empatia, Huumori, Hyvä ulkonäkö, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus, Passiivisuus

Mitä etsit?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?

Internet Kaveri, Kaveri, Päivämäärä, Intiimi, Sitoutunut, Avioliitto