Just looking for sweet friends...

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Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Signo

Virgo

Mi tipo de cuerpo es

Algún kilo de más

Mi altura es

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Mis ojos son

Avellana

Mi raza es

Caucásico

Mi situación marital es

Divorciado

Tengo hijos

Si - A veces en casa

Quiero tener hijos

Si

Mi Mejor característica es

Labios

Mi pelo es

Rubio Oscuro

Tengo uno o más de estos

Sin Mascotas

Me iría a vivir a otro lugar

Si

Mi nivel de estudios / educación es

Algo de Universidad

Mi situación laboral actual es

Desempleado

Mi especialidad es

Entretenimiento / Media

Mi salario anual es de

Menos de $14,999USD

Vivo en

Solo/a

En casa

Los amigos visitan ocasionalmente

Soy Fumador

Si - Intentando dejarlo

Soy Bebedor

No

En el instituto, era

Forajido

Socialmente, me describiría como

Reservados, Tímido/a, Observador, Anti Social, Amistoso, Cómico, Coqueto/a, Extraña / Rarezas

Mis aficiones e intereses son

Religión / Espiritualidad, Familia, Cenar, Fotografia, Leer, Artes y Manualidades, Aprender, Música, Televisión, Películas, Internet, Teatro, Viajar, Cocinar, Ir de camping, Voluntariado, Computadoras , Ir de compras

Mi idea de un rato estupendo es

Salir con amigos, Ir de compras, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Relajarse, Dormir, Leer un Libro, Jugar a vestirme elegante, Jugar Video Juegos, Televisión, Ir a un Museo

Mi primera cita ideal sería

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Siempre he querido probar

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Mis amigos me describen como

Amistoso, Lo que todo el mundo quiere ser, Genial, Perfecto, Oscuro, Bobo

Mi religión es

Cristiano

Voy a la iglesia

Nunca

Mi meta en la vida

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Mi sentido del humor es

Irónico/a, Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo

En la TV, siempre veo

Dibujos Animados, Documentales, Dramas, Educativos, Películas, Telenovelas, Reposiciones

Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una

Comedia , Romance, Drama , Documentales, Familia, Horror

Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es

Country, Pop, Clásica

Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es

Noticias, Autobiografías, Biografías, Clásicos, Cómics, Salud, Historia, Horror, Humor, Educativos, Música, Misterio, Filosofía, Poesía, Sátira, Romance, Sobrenatural

Mi idea de diversión es

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

¿Qué te resulta atractivo?

Ingenio, Poder, Espontaneidad, Rarezas, Sensibilidad, Empatía, Humor, Buena Imagen, Detallista, Inteligencia, Pasividad

¿Qué estás buscando?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?

Amigo/a de Internet, Amigo/a , Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido, Matrimonio