Just looking for sweet friends...

Eu Sei Falar

Inglês

Me Descreveria Como

Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Signo

Virgem

Meu Tipo de Corpo:

Com Alguns Quilos Extra

Minha Altura:

1.8 m

Cor dos Olhos:

Cor de avelã

Minha Etnia:

Caucasiana

Minha Situação Conjugal:

Divorciado

Com Filhos?

Sim - Às Vezes Em Casa

Quer Ter Filhos?

Sim

Minha Melhor Característica:

Lábios

Cor de Cabelo:

Loiro Escuro

Animais Que Possuo:

Não possuo animais

Disposto/a a Mudar de Morada?

Sim

Nível Educacional

Alguma Faculdade

Ocupação

Desempregado

Especialização

Entretenimento / Mídia

Eu Faço Isto Em Um Ano

Menos Que $14,999USD

Eu Moro

Sozinho

Em Casa

Amigos Vêm Ocasionalmente

Eu Fumo

Sim - Tentando Parar

Eu Bebo

Não

No Colegial, Eu Era Um

Marginal

Meu Comportamento Social É

Reservado, Tímido, Observador, Anti-social, Amigável, Cômico/a, Flertador(a)/Engatatão; Engatatona, Estranha

Meus Interesses e Atividades São

Religião / Espiritualidade, Família, Jantar, Fotografia, Ler, Artes & Artesanato, Aprender, Música, TV, Filmes, Internet, Teatro, Viajar, Cozinhar, Acampar, Voluntariado, Computadores, Comprar

Minha Ideia De Um Momento Ideal É

Sair Com Os Amigos, Ir Às Compras, Ficar Em Casa, Cinema, Relaxar, Dormi, Ler Um Livro, Jogos de vestir, Jogar Vídeo-Games, TV, Ir A Um Museu

Um Primeiro Encontro Ideal Seria

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Eu Sempre Quis Tentar

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Meus Amigos Me Descrevem Como Sendo

Amigável, Alguém Com Quem as Outras Pessoas Queiram Estar, Legal, Perfeito, Obscuro/a, Pateta

Minha Religião É

Cristã

Frequento Serviços

Nunca

Meu Objetivo na Vida É

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Meu Tipo de Humor É

Afetado/a, Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amigável, Pateta

Na TV, Eu Sempre Assisto

Desenhos, Documentários, Dramas, Educativo, Filmes, Novelas, Reprises/Repetições

Quando Eu Vou Ao Cinema, Eu Sempre Vou Para Ver Um

Comédia, Romance, Drama, Documentário, Família, Terror

Quando Eu Ouço Música, Eu Sempre Ouço

Sertaneja, Pop, Clássica

Quando Eu Leio, Eu Sempre Leio

Notícias, Autobiografia, Biografia, Clássicos, Quadrinhos, Saúde, História, Terror, Humor, Educativo, Música, Mistério, Filosofia, Poesia, Sátira, Romance, Supernatural

Para mim, Diversão É

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

O Que Você Acha Atraente?

Espirituoso/a, Poder, Espontaneidade, Esquisitices, Sensibilidade, Empatia, Humor, Boa Aparência, Consideração Pelos Outros, Inteligência, Passividade

O Que Você Procura?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Que Tipo de Relacionamento Você Procura?

Amigo da Internet, Amigo, Encontro, Íntimo, Comprometido/a, Casamento