Just looking for sweet friends...

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Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som

Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

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My Kroppstype er

Ett par ekstra kilo

Min høyde er

5 '11 (1,8 m)

Øynene mine er

Hassel

Min etnisitet er

kaukasisk

Min Sivilsituasjon er

Skilt

Jeg har barn

Ja - noen ganger hjemme

Jeg vil ha barn

Ja

Min beste egenskap er

Lepper

Mitt hår er

Mørk blond

Jeg har en eller flere av disse

Ingen dyr

Villing til å flytte

Ja

Min Utdanningsnivå Er

Noe College

Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er

Arbeidsledig

Min spesialitet er

Underholdning / Media

Jeg tjener så mye på et år

Mindre Enn $14,999USD

Jeg bor

Alene

Hjemme

Venner kommer av og til på besøk

Jeg er en røyker

Ja - prøver å slutte

Jeg drikker

Nei

Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg

utstøtt

Min sosiale atferd er

Reservert, Sjenert, Observant, Asosial, Vennlig, Komisk, Flørtende, Merkelig

Mine interesser og hobbier er

Religion / livssyn, Familie, Restaurant, Fotografi, Lese, Kunst og Håndverk, Lære, Musikk, Tv, Filmer, Internett, Teater, Reise, Lage mat, Kamping, Frivillig arbeid, Datamaskiner, Shopping

Min idé av å ha det gøy er

Være med venner, Shoppe, Være hjemme, Kino, Slappe av, Sove, Lese en bok, Kle seg ut, Spille videospill, Tv, Gå på museum

En ideel første date vil være

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Jeg har alltid hatt lyst til å prøve

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Mine venner beskriver meg som

Vennlig, En andre ønsker å være, Kul, Perfekt, obskur, Tullete

Min religion er

Kristen

Jeg går på gudstjeneste

Aldri

Mitt mål i livet er

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Min humoristiske sans er

Campy / overdrevet, Smart, Tørr / Sarkastisk, Vennlig, Tullete

På TV ser jeg alltid på

Tegneserier, Dokumentarer, Drama, Instruksjonsvideo, Filmer, Såper, Repriser

Når jeg går på kino, går jeg alltid for å se en

Komedie, Romantikk, Drama, Dokumentar, Familie, Skrekk

Når jeg hører på musikk, så hører jeg alltid på

Land, Pop, Klassisk

Når jeg leser, så leser jeg alltid

Nyheter, Auto-biografi, Biografi, Klassisk, Tegneserie / tegnestripe, Helse, Historie, Skrekk, Humor, Instruksjonsvideo, Musikk, Mysterier, Filosofi, Poesi, Satire, Romantikk, Overnaturlig

Min idé av å ha det gøy er

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Hva finner du attraktivt?

vett, Makt, Spontanitet, Rariteter, Følsomhet, Empati, Humor, Flott utseende, Omtanksfull, Intelligens, Passivitet

Hva ser du etter?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Hva slag forhold søker du?

Internett Venn, Venn, Dato, Intim, Forpliktet, Ekteskap