Just looking for sweet friends...
MelissaNicoleB
Knoxville, Tennessee | Transsexuel/Travesti/Transgenre Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.
Signe
Vierge
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Quelques kilos en trop
Ma taille est
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Mes yeux sont
Noisettes
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants
Oui - parfois chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Oui
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Lèvres
Mes cheveux sont
Blonds foncés
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Oui
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes secondaires incomplètes
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Sans emploi
Mon domaine de compétence est
Divertissement / Médias
J'ai gagné cette année
Moins de 14,999 €
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
Des amis passent à l'occasion
Je fume
Oui - j'essaye d'arrêter
Je bois de l'alcool
Non
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Mal-aimé/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé, Timide, Observateur, Antisocial, Sympa, Comique, Séducteur, Bizarre
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Religion/Spiritualité, Famille, Dîner , Photographie, Lecture, Art & artisanat, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Internet, Théâtre, Voyages, Cuisine, Camper, Bénévolat, Ordinateurs, Faire du shopping
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Faire du shopping, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Dormir, Lire, Se déguiser, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Télévision, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Camping. I've honestly never been.
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être, Cool, Parfait/e, Obscur/e, Neuneu
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Chrétien
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon but dans la vie c'est
To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Vicelard, Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Dessins animés, Documentaires, Drames, Programmes instructifs, Films, Séries à l'eau de rose, Rediffusions
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Famille, Horreur
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Country, Pop, Classique
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Actualités, Autobiographies, Biographies, Littérature classique, Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Santé, Histoire, Horreur, Humour, Programmes instructifs, Musique, Mystères, Philosophie, Poésie, Satires, Romantiques, Surnaturel
Mon idée du fun
People watching... never a dull moment with that!!
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Pouvoir, Spontanéité, Etrangeté, Sensibilité, Empathie, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence, Passivité
Que recherchez-vous?
Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Pote virtuel, Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement, Mariage