Just looking for sweet friends...

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Hi, everyone. I am a 41 year old Male to Female transgender woman. I first want to say that I'm absolutely not interested in anything sexual here. Once upon a time, while playing out my forced, male role, I was attracted to cis females only. The bitter end of an 11 year marriage... plus age... topped off with hormone replacement therapy... has rendered me asexual as of November, 2013. My ex wife was my first, and only ever, sexual partner. That intimacy brought me 2 beautiful and devoted children. I said all of that to say this. I am only... only... only... looking for friends. Male OR female. Whether male or female, I am what I recently read termed as bi-romantic. Meaning... I have zero desire for sex... and, am actually a bit repulsed by kissing. (maybe it's a psychological wall that I simply need to tear down. I just don't know.) But... I often imagine cuddling. I ache for it. Massages. Playing with each others hair. Snuggling into long, restful naps. Watching movies in bed. I have so much affection to give... and, I also need a lot of it, too. But, I honestly fear that no one is out there who would be pleased with that. A person who's cuddly and deeply affectionate, but, cannot offer anything sexually. I feel like if I had my correct female parts... maybe. Again, it may be a wall that I've put up, with the wrong parts playing a role in. Anyway... besides cuddles... here's what else I give to everyone around me. My full attention. When I'm talking to people or visiting... I either leave my phone in my apartment, or I take it with me, but it's on do not disturb, except for my 2 kids being able to get thru. Wherever possible, I do prefer the same kind of attentiveness. Kindness. By that, I mean... if we had plans for a fun evening... and, you get too sick for that... I don't berate you or say that you ruined our evening. I go into nurse mode, which is my missed calling, and feel so happy that it is me who gets to be with you in that condition, so that I have someone to take care of. Someone who needs me. I've had a lot of my family hurt me, since my divorce. I've often been made to feel like a problem, if I ever need something such as being driven to a doctor appointment. I get shunned. A lot. Not related to being trans. FOR being trans, I do get Thanksgiving and Christmas family events hidden from me. It's an unspoken rule. What I'm saying is... someone being sick or whiny or clingy for a weekend doesn't bother me. In fact, I thrive on feeling needed. I'm probably making zero sense here. LoL Loyalty. If we're put somewhere, and you encounter one of those jerk friends or relatives who puts you down or takes a joke too far and is obviously hurting your feelings... I don't betray you and join in on their side. I remain graceful, and don't get into an argument with them. But, I make it clear with my silence, and my head against your shoulder while I hold your hand... that I am NOT amused, and that I am on YOUR side. Humor. This writing cannot convey my sense of humor. But... I can assure you, I will constantly keep you laughing. In fact, I have to keep certain humor to myself, unless I find that you can be as messed up in the humor department as I am.

Zodie

Fecioară

Tipul corpului meu este

Câteva kilograme în plus

Înălțimea mea este

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Ochii mei sunt

Căprui

Sunt de etnie

caucaziană

Starea mea civilă este

Divorțat(ă)

Am copii

Da - Uneori acasă

Doresc copii

Da

Caracteristica mea cea mai bună este

Buze

Părul meu este

Blond închis

Am mai multe de asta

Fără animale de companie

Dispus să mă mut

Da

Nivelul meu de educație este

Ceva colegiu

Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este

Șomer(ă)

Specializarea mea este

Divertisment / Media

Salariul meu anual este

Mai puțin de 14,999$

Eu trăiesc

Singur(ă)

acasă

Prietenii vin ocazional

Fumez

Da - încerc să renunț

Beau

Nu

În liceu am fost

Izgonit

Comportamentul meu social este

Închis, Timid, Atent, Anti-social , Prietenos, De comedie, Cochet, Ciudat

Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt

Religie / Spiritualitate, Familie, Mese, Fotografie, Citire, Artă și Artizanat, Învățare, Muzică, Tv , Filme, Internet , Teatru, Călătorii, Gătire, Camping, Voluntariatul, Calculatoare, Cumpărături

Distracția bună pentru mine este

Cu prietenii, La cumpărături, Acasă, Filmele, Relaxare, Dormit, Citind o carte, Joacă cu îmbrăcăminte, Jocuri video, Tv , La un muzeu

O prima întâlnire perfectă ar fi

Meet before dinner... sit and have a long and informative talk after dinner... ride around talking... if things go well, maybe end the night with non sexual cuddling... falling asleep talking...

Întotdeauna am vrut să încerc

Camping. I've honestly never been.

Prietenii mei mă descriu ca

Prietenos, Cineva care ei vor să fie, Super, Perfect , Tainic, Ridicol

Religia mea este

Creștină

Particip la servicii

Niciodată

Scopul meu în viață este

To overcome all of my obstacles... such as my social anxiety and depression, and get back to myself, feeling productive again.

Genul meu de umor este

Inteligent, Deștept, Sec / Sarcastic, Prietenos, Ridicol

La TV întotdeauna mă uit la

Desene animate, Documentar, Drame, Instruire, Filme, Telenovele, Reluari

Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea

Comedie , Romantism, Dramă, Documentar, Familie, De groază

Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult

Stat, Pop , Clasică

Când citesc, eu citesc

Știri, Auto-biografie, Biografie, Clasică, Comic , Sănătate, Istorie, De groază, Umor, Instruire, Muzică, Mister, Filozofie, Poezie, Satiră, Romantism, Supranatural

Distracția pentru mine este

People watching... never a dull moment with that!!

Ce vi se pare atractiv?

Rațiune, Putere, Spontaneitate, Ciudățenii, Sensibilitate, Empatie, Umor, Frumusețe, Grija, Inteligență, Pasivitate

Ce căutați?

Affection... Attention... To be wanted, and needed, for the very things that others didn't appreciate about me...

Ce fel de relație doriți?

Prieten de pe internet, Prieten, Partener de întâlniri, Intim, Dedicat(ă), Căsătorie